Love, the Gift of Giving, and How Life Gets Measured
Published December 25, 2023
Reading Time: 1 min 38 sec
Published December 25, 2023
Reading Time: 1 min 38 sec
“Just as our bodies are born to breathe air, we are born to love. That's why although it's good to address our fear, it's even better to focus on our love. Any effort we put toward love—truly, any effort at all—will self-perpetuate, bringing joy, health, and well-being into our lives.”
– Gladys McGarey, MD, The Well-Lived Life
One more time: “Any effort we put toward love…will self-perpetuate, bringing joy, health, and well-being into our lives.”
Sounds good to me 🙏
“Without love and joy motivating your efforts, you're not practicing right effort.”
- George Mumford, The Mindful Athlete
You can apply breathing & mindfulness for the wrong reasons: to rob a bank, manipulate people, and so on. That’s why right effort is critical.
There are several elements of “right effort,” but Mumford provides a simple starting point: make sure love & joy are motivating your efforts. If they are, you’re likely on the right track 🙏
Here’s David Goggins discussing a race where he had to take a break to let his thyroid reset:
“I decided to rest with no idea how long that process might take. I’d already run 120 miles. Predictably, within an hour, my body reacted as if the race was over. I started to swell and tighten up as my muscles shifted into recovery mode. … This would be a problem.”
It’s a nice reminder that swelling & tightness usually occur when we stop to rest & recover. Not only in endurance events, but in life in general. Just remember that feeling this pain is part of the process.
Think of the breath cycle starting an exhale, not an inhale. Use this as a reminder to give before you receive.
Make your exhale slightly longer than your inhale. Use this as a reminder to always give more than you receive.
"Ultimately, your life will be measured by what you gave, not what you received. Don’t hold out on the rest of us—we need you to contribute."
— — Todd Henry
Answer: Humans only absorb about this percentage of the oxygen they inhale with each breath.
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(Cue the Jeopardy! music.)
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Question: What is 5%?
In good breath,
Nick Heath, T1D, PhD
“Breathing is the compound interest of health & wellness.”
P.S. Start off your new year right
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